About Tim

I'm a Christian, a husband, a worker (for the Australian Public Service), interested in photography, books, music, movies, good food and wine, coffee, and many other wonderful things in life. God has blessed me in many ways - with faith, a lovely wife, two children, great friends, Christian fellowship at Crossroads Christian Church and more widely, a caring family, and so many more things as well. All in all, being found in Christ and with all these great things, I can complain about nothing.

First time on a merry-go-round

We took Anastasia on the merry go round in Civic while we were at the Multicultural Food Festival last year. Despite a hesitant start she absolutely loved it. She got very upset when the ride finished and we wouldn’t take her on it for another ride. She kept saying, “More neigh!”

Emilíana Torrini in Concert: 5 January 2010

On Tuesday night, Tegan and I saw favourite singer, Emilíana Torrini, in concert at the Enmore Theatre in Sydney. This is the second time we have seen her in concert – I blogged about the first time back in November 2005 here and it all but impossible to describe this concert without comparing it to the first.

The concert was brilliant. Amazing. Wonderful. We thoroughly enjoyed it and has such a good time. I can’t remember the last time I had such a big smile on my face during a concert. I almost always enjoy concerts – mainly because I don’t typically see bands I don’t like, at least not recently anyway – but this was something special. Björk was probably the only other performer I have seen in the last few years who has had us dancing quite so much at a concert (read about that one here).

We arrived at the Theatre before the doors opened and stood quite near the middle of the front row. This placed us only about 3 metres from Emilíana and with a great view of the whole stage.

The first support act was a woman named Lovísa Elísabet Sigrúnardottir Lay Low. Unlike the support act the first time we saw Emilíana Torrini, this support act was good and memorable. Like Emilíana she was from Iceland and sounded quite similar, though a little more country. She was quite nervous an stumbled a few times during her set but had some great songs. I’ve already bought one of her albums on iTunes. The other cool thing that we discovered once Emilíana came on was that her guitarist and the other band members who played with her for a couple of songs were actually Emilíana’s band.

Emilíana, though, was incredibly amazing. She was still just as shy when interacting with the audience as the first time we saw her, but was a more confident performer overall.

So, for the comparisons:

We enjoyed the previous concert more, we were sorry to say. This does not indicate that we did not enjoy the concert last night, but it won’t stay stuck in our heads as one of the greatest musical experiences of our lives as did the first one.

The first concert was more intimate – though the Metro Theatre isn’t that much smaller than the Enmore, it actually made a big difference to the feel. Last time around the stage was more compressed and everything felt closer.

This time around she had a bigger band. We can’t quite remember, but think that last time it was just her and a guitarist and one or two others. This time there were up to six people on stage at a time. Mind you, the band were also much better this time – in fact they were amazing. The drummer was particularly good – on several songs (To Be Free was the one we noticed first) he sounded much better than did the drummer on the studio version that we have on CD. He was also notable as the first drummer I have ever seen play cymbals with a violin bow. In several songs he drew a violin bow up over the sides of the cymbals to produce a shimmering sound. This was amazing to watch. He also later did the same with a xylophone in one song, which produced an amazingly interesting sound.

There was also a keyboard player, two guitarists and for some songs another bass player. The bass players deserve a special mention – for several songs the woman who was the support act played bass and on a couple of songs the roadie played bass – it was actually really cool to see such a seamless meld between the support and the main act and to see the band for the entire concert acting as such a tight unit.

The bigger band really suited the songs from Emilíana’s latest album and from her first mainstream album, Love in the Time of Science. These are largely songs with rock or electronic beats and instrumentation and the heavier guitar and drumming really suited these songs. However, in another sense it detracted from the thing that we loved the most from the first time we saw Emilína, and that was her voice. Her voice is amazing – possibly the best I’ve heard from anyone other than an opera/choral singer. In the first concert, with it’s intimate venue and instrumentation and the predominance of beautiful, haunting, emotional songs her voice carried massive power. It stayed with us for days afterwards. This time around she still sang brilliantly, but it did not dominate the rest of the band like it did the first time we saw her.

And that brings me to my next point: this time, Emilíana was happier. That sounds an odd thing to say, but in 2005 she was touring in support of her Fisherman’s Woman album, which is a very sad album, based around themes of loss and mourning. However, her most recent album, Me and Armini, is a much more upbeat album – lots of pop and rock and even some reggae beats. It’s obvious that she is happier in life, which must be a great thing for her. It sounds harsh, but her singing appealed to me more when it was sadder. I think it works like this: there are lots of good rock and pop bands out there. Out of those, there are a decent number who can impart a great vibe and make you feel happy when you experience their music. However, there aren’t many bands who do overwhelming emotion very well. Jeff Buckley was one, and he died way too early. Emilíana Torrini is the only other person I’ve heard who can sing powerful, emotional songs with such energy and force that you truly feel their emotion and want to sympathise with them. She sang some of those songs this time around, but it didn’t carry the same force as in 2005. And on the subject of her voice, it did sound a bit more tired this time – she sounded as though she has been touring for a bit too long in a row and needs a bit of a break. This is understandable, and is the difference between hearing a tour perhaps 6 months or so after the album was released, compared with now about 18 months since the last album was released – and she has been to Australia twice in that time.

I should note that the first time we saw her it was on her first Australian tour, and we would have liked to have seen her on her second Australian tour, but it was a little difficult as Anastasia would have only been a few weeks old at the time.

In a sense, all the description of the concert I have laid out to this point isn’t actually a fair review of the concert in its own right: all this really does is clarify for me what I liked so much about the first Emilíana Torrini concert I went to. As such, this could just be appended to my first review and treated as an extension of said comments.

In fairness to last night’s concert in its own right: we had such a brilliant time and left feeling massively happy. That’s about the highest compliment we can pay Emilíana for the concert. Our best experiences of anything – concerts, restaurants, events – are ones that make us happy; it’s our litmus test of how great something is. Last night made us really happy – I noticed that as the concert went on I was leaning further and further over the barricade, tapping along to the music and also enjoying watching the various looks on the faces of other people in the front few rows who were also massively enjoying the concert. To me, this emphasises that it was excellent – great songs and a powerful, engaging performance. We will certainly try our hardest to see her again next time she comes to Australia.

One final cool thing: I got a copy of the setlist that the band used – one of the roadies passed me one when the concert was over. There were a few changes at the end of the concert in what they played compared to what the setlist said, the main one being that the setlist would have had them finishing with a cover of The Beatles’s song ‘Dear Prudence’. I would have loved to have seen that, so I found a video of her playing it on YouTube here.

One final not so cool thing: I wish I had taken my camera. When we saw her at The Metro they were checking bags and making people check their cameras in at the cloak room. With that in mind, we decided not to take a camera this time. However, we could easily have taken a camera in and plenty of people in the crowd had them. Had we only known… Tegan did get some cool video of bits of the concert on her iPhone though and one of my sister’s friends, Michelle, was there with a photographer’s pass and has posted some of her photos on Flickr.

Anastasia: one year on

Waving at daddy

Anastasia turned one today.

We survived the first year. Our sanity and health are still, largely, intact.

Here are some things you might like to know.

Vital stats

At one year old, Anastasia weighs a bit over 11kg and is around 80cm tall. This means she is already more than half Tegan’s height and we therefore expect her to be tall, like me, rather than short like Tegan.

Tracking her growth over the year, she has essentially grown in proportion to where she started, being in about the 90-100th percentile for girls at the same age, although her height and head circumference are now off the chart. She is not small.

Health

The issue we had with her hips at birth was essentially resolved by the time she was three months old. She wore the pavlik harness for 13 weeks, but since then her hips have been perfectly normal and the orthopaedic surgeon at first thought that the hip displaysia may have been a mis-diagnosis – so she has done exceptionally well in that regard.

In general her health was really great up until about three months ago. Since the start of winter she has been almost constantly sick. She has had two or three bouts of bronchitis, constant colds and at least one case of croup. Tegan took her back to the doctor today who said that at the rate she is going it looks as though she will develop childhood asthma. This is not particularly surprising, as Tegan suffered very bad asthma and has only had hers under proper control for the last three or four years. That said, other parents I work with say that it is better to go through this now than later. I have been told that once they start school you can tell the kids who have never been in child care or a play group because they are essentially constantly sick for the first two years. That sounds much worse.

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Sleep

I almost remember what good sleep feels like.

I jest, mostly. Anastasia slept brilliantly from the time she was about six weeks old. At six weeks she was sleeping for five to six hours in a row at night and by nine weeks old was sleeping for 11 hours at night. This was blissful and other parents were insanely jealous. However, since Anastasia has been sick so much this winter, her sleep has been really interrupted and we have now hardly had a good nights sleep for weeks or months. It’s exhausting.

General development

Anastasia started crawling at a bit over six months old. At one she is not quite walking – she loves cruising around the living room while holding onto her walker toy or a dining chair and can walk around while holding on to furniture, but she doesn’t quite have the balance to walk on her own.

She is getting pretty talkative. Her first word was ‘Dad’ at about six months old, followed by ‘Mum’ a few weeks later. She can also (mostly) say ‘thank you’, ‘bird’ and a few other things – but most of these you wouldn’t be able to understand unless you heard them in the right context and could associate them with what she was trying to say.

She likes:

  • music, especially rock music to which she can bop along
  • her ‘Kaloo‘ bear
  • cheese, especially King Island double or triple brie
  • baths and showers
  • books
  • applause
  • people, especially Mummy and Daddy
  • pulling Tupperware and tea towels out of their drawers in the kitchen and putting them back again
  • playing peek-a-boo

She dislikes:

  • getting in trouble and not being allowed to do things she shouldn’t be doing
  • booing and negative language
  • plasticy ‘cheese’
  • Heinz baby food
  • Moet

Her birthday

About to open a present

We sang happy birthday to Anastasia several times today, which she thought was hilarious and which she really loved.

Her first birthday present she actually got early. We decided to buy her a walker toy, but she got it three weeks ago when after work one day she was walking around the dining room by holding onto a dining chair and pushing it around in front of her – we figured she had a need for the walker right then and that she really wouldn’t understand the significance of waiting until her birthday anyway. The box that the walker came in was also a favourite toy for the following few weeks.

Today, she received a touchy-feely book, ‘That’s Not My Dragon‘, new shoes and a set of percussion instruments. So far she is having great fun with them.

We are having a party for Anastasia this weekend. Actually, it’s a high tea with champagne and it’s less for her than a chance for us to celebrate surviving the first year. She won’t remember it anyway, but we’ll ensure there’s a photo of her with a cupcake and a candle for posterity.

Photos

We have taken hundreds and hundreds of photos of Anastasia (and of almost nothing else since she was born). There are lots of them up on our respective Flickr photostreams, though not all of them are made public. We would have to add you as a contact in order to see the ones marked for friends and family – make a Flickr account and add us as contacts if you’re interested.

What else

Anastasia is a real blessing and we continually thank God for her. We love her so much. There have been so many lovely moments – it’s hard to recall them all when writing something up like this. We are really looking forward to seeing her continuing development.

But we’re not ready for another one.

The three of us

Anastasia Grace Johnson

Anastasia - 12 hours old

Born at 9.35pm on Tuesday 19 August
She weighed 3.895kg and was 51cm long with a head circumference of 36cm.

The time since Anastasia’s birth has been pretty hectic, which is why I’m only now getting around to posting this info to our blog (you can tell that I don’t take this site too seriously when it takes me a month to post such significant information). So here’s what has happened in the last month. Some of you may already know all this – and thanks to everyone who has been praying for us and catching up with us during this time; we really appreciate everyone’s assistance and love for us.

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No baby yet

photoNo baby has yet arrived, but thanks to everyone who has been contacting us for news and to see how we are.

Tegan’s fingers and ankles are badly swollen – she was in a lot of pain last night and had a lot of trouble sleeping. Fortunately our new mattress is working as intended and I’m finding it easier to sleep even when Tegan can’t.

The obstetrician was today back to talking about a 9 August due date, so while it could be any day now it might still be a week or two.